Open Up to Intimacy

Be open and honest in your relationships. Ask. You will torture yourself wondering and wondering what the other person is thinking or wanting. Ask. Talk it over. Allow your partner his freedom. Allow your partner her space. If your love is real, you don't need to be together constantly. If your love is real, you don't need to know every little movement your partner makes. Give each other the blessing of trust. Allow your partner to live his own life, and take care that you live your own. Take pleasure in each other's individual pursuits. Come together at the end of the day and share what's happened openly. Tell her how you feel and what you are afraid of. Tell him your hopes and dreams. Talk and talk and talk. Open up to intimacy.