Responsibility

In relationship, it is your responsibility to feel and notice what you are feeling in any situation. It is your responsibility to bring conscious thought into the situation. It is your responsibility to determine if any actions are advisable based on what you are feeling and thinking. It is then your responsibility to act in a loving and kind way toward connection or boundary setting or resolution. All of this remains your responsibility no matter how unloving or provocative the other person is being. Good things happen when you take charge of your own actions and let go of trying to convince the other person to change.